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Elf on the Shelf ideas for Dubai: the elf who moved too

A boy who missed home, an elf who arrived jet-lagged, and an advent countdown that slowly made Dubai feel like theirs.

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A toy elf in a red suit sitting beside a wooden Merry Christmas box, Christmas lights glowing behind him
Image credit: Rajesh Kavasseri

The elf came out of a shipping box marked “Christmas, fragile”, wrapped in a tea towel from a kitchen in Manchester.

Claire had moved to Dubai in August with her son Alfie, who was six and did not think much of the idea. By the end of November he still asked, most nights, when they were going home. So she made the elf move too. This is the story of their first December here, and of the Elf on the Shelf ideas for Dubai that turned a countdown into a way of settling in: one small piece of the new city every morning, and one piece of the old one kept safe.

If your family has just arrived, or your children are missing grandparents in another country, you will find twenty-odd ideas tucked into the story below, a few honest words about the mornings it did not work, and how the advent countdown ended with a letter to Santa from a new address.

30 November, 9.40pm

The box nobody had opened since August

The last box from the shipment had lived in the storeroom for three months, because it said Christmas on the side and Christmas had seemed a very long way off in August, when it was forty-four degrees and Alfie would not leave the apartment. Claire opened it on the last night of November with a cup of tea and a pair of scissors. Inside were the stockings, the tree skirt her mother had sewn, a string of lights that probably needed new batteries, and the elf, folded in half and smelling slightly of the cupboard under the stairs.

She sat on the floor and thought about it. Last year the elf had been a nuisance she kept forgetting at eleven at night. This year he could be useful. If Alfie felt that everything had been taken away and replaced, the elf could be the one thing that had been taken away and come back. And he could arrive the way they had: tired, confused, and slightly too warm.

1 December, 6.15am

Jet-lagged, with a boarding pass

Alfie found him at the kitchen counter, beside a bowl of instant noodles with a fork standing up in it. There was a card propped against the bowl. “Hi, my name is Errol. Sorry about the mess. My body clock still thinks it is Manchester.” Tucked under one arm was a boarding pass Claire had made at midnight from an old luggage label: Manchester to Dubai, seat 1A, “one elf, no luggage”.

Alfie read the card twice and then asked, with real concern, whether Errol had been sick on the plane, because Alfie had been, on theirs. It was the first conversation about the move that did not end in a sulk. They agreed Errol would need a few days to get used to the heat, and that he would probably want to see things. Alfie, it turned out, had a list.

A toy elf leaning out from behind a card that reads Hi, my name is Errol
Image credit: Jonny Gios

Week one

Elf on the Shelf ideas for a new city

Claire made one rule for herself: every morning, one small Dubai thing, and nothing that took more than ten minutes to set up. On day two Errol was sitting in Alfie’s school shoe with a teaspoon of sand from the playground, as if he had been to the beach without asking. On day three he had written marhaba on the fridge in magnetic letters and spelled it wrong. On day four he was in the fruit bowl, counting dates into rows of five, and Alfie corrected his maths before breakfast.

On day five Errol had borrowed the car keys and parked a toy car in the lift lobby, because everyone in the tower seemed to drive everywhere. On day six he was wrapped in a hand towel at the edge of the bath with a tiny paper fan, complaining, in a note, about the humidity. None of it was clever. It did not need to be. Alfie was learning the city through someone who knew less about it than he did, and that put him in charge.

On day seven Errol was back at the counter with another bowl of noodles, which Alfie took as proof that he was still on Manchester time. Claire took it as proof that a good idea can be used twice.

A toy elf sitting on a kitchen counter beside a green bowl of noodles with a fork standing in it
Image credit: Jasmeen Hemmings

Week two, Saturday

The desert, at a smaller scale

A colleague at the clinic where Claire worked had invited them to the desert with her family, and Claire used it. On Friday night Errol appeared on a baking tray full of sand from the compound sandpit, sitting on a plastic camel from a party bag with a strip of red ribbon for reins. The note said he had heard about the dunes and wanted to see if they were real.

They were. Alfie spent the afternoon running down them and the evening shaking sand out of his socks, and when they got home he put a pinch of it in a jam jar for Errol, labelled in pencil. It sat on the shelf for the rest of December. Later, when Claire asked what he had liked best about the month, he said the camels, and then the jar, which she took to mean that what mattered was the part he had been given to carry home.

Three camels in patterned saddle blankets resting on red sand in the desert outside Dubai
Image credit: Matthew Foulds

Week two, Friday

One dirham across the creek

The abra idea came from Alfie. He had seen the wooden boats on a video at school and asked whether Errol could go on one. The next morning the elf was floating in the kitchen sink in a paper boat made from a page of the newspaper, with a coin on the deck. The note said he had heard you could cross the old part of the city by boat for a coin, and could they check.

They checked. They went on a Friday morning, before the heat built, and Alfie held the fare in his fist for the whole queue and handed it over himself. On the far side they bought a bag of nuts and walked through the old souq and nobody asked to go home. It was the first outing he described on the phone to his grandmother without being prompted. Errol, the next day, was asleep in a spice tin.

A wooden abra with a UAE flag crossing Dubai Creek, a man steering at the back
Image credit: Isabel Nold

Week three, Tuesday, 6.40am

The morning it did not work

Some mornings the elf could not fix anything. On the third Tuesday Alfie woke up crying because his best friend from home had had a birthday party without him, and he had seen the photographs. Errol was sitting on the bookshelf holding a tiny sign about pancakes, and Alfie did not look at him once. Claire let it go. She rang her mother on video, early, and Nana made a fuss of him until he laughed, and they were twenty minutes late for school.

That night she changed tack a little. Errol stopped being only about Dubai. The next morning he was hanging from a piece of string across the living room, as if he had zip-lined all the way from Manchester, holding a postcard her mother had posted a fortnight earlier and Claire had been saving. It had a picture of the town hall on it. Alfie took it to school.

A toy elf hanging from a line strung across a living room, a lit Christmas tree in the corner
Image credit: Jasmeen Hemmings

Week three

A Christmas countdown with two cities in it

The advent calendar had been the cheap chocolate kind, and by week three Alfie had stopped caring about it. What he cared about was the twenty-second, when Nana and Grandad were landing. So Claire turned the last ten days into a different Christmas countdown: felt stockings pegged along a string under the television, each with two slips of paper inside. One was a Dubai thing (a walk along the beach at sunset, karak tea from the cafeteria downstairs, the lights at the mall). One was a home thing (Nana’s mince pie recipe, a carol they used to sing in the car, a photograph of the garden).

Errol was in charge of the string. Some mornings he had swapped the slips round and some mornings he was inside a stocking with only his feet showing. The countdown was no longer to Christmas Day, exactly. It was to the day the two halves met. If you want to build something similar, our Christmas countdown and advent calendar ideas has more ways to fill one.

A row of small paper advent bags hung along a fir garland on a white wall, a lit tree beside it
Image credit: krasikovaphotonn, via Pinterest

23 December, after school

A letter to Santa from a new address

Alfie wrote his letter to Santa at the kitchen table, slowly, with his tongue out. Most of it was about a bike. The last line said: “We live in Dubai now, in the tall building with the blue lights. Errol knows where it is.” He had been worrying, Claire realised, about whether Santa had been told about the move. Nobody had thought to mention it. Of course he had been worrying.

They folded the letter into an envelope and addressed it the old way, to Santa at the North Pole, and Alfie drew a map on the back, with the tower, the pool and the car park. Errol would take it that night, he decided. He knew the way, after all; he had done the journey himself three weeks earlier.

A small child holding a sheet of paper, kissing her mother on the cheek beside a piano
Image credit: linachepko, via Pinterest

24 December, 6.05am

The last note

On Christmas Eve morning the envelope had gone and Errol was sitting on the windowsill, looking out at the city, with one last note. It said he had delivered the letter, that Santa had the new address now, and that he would be going back to the North Pole that night, where the weather suited him better. He would come back next December, it said, “to the same tall building”.

Nana and Grandad had arrived two days earlier, and they were at the breakfast table when Alfie read it out. Grandad asked whether he would miss the elf. Alfie thought about it and said no, because he was coming back, and anyway they lived here now. It was the first time he had said “here” like that. Claire went to put the kettle on, so that nobody would see her face.

A red Letters to Santa postbox marked North Pole Mail, with holly on the lid
Image credit: Jon Tyson

Elf on the Shelf ideas for Dubai: what Claire would tell you

The elf works best as a small, steady habit, not a nightly performance. Here is what we would pass on from Claire’s December.

Plan a week at a time. Write seven ideas on a Sunday, and keep two lazy ones in reserve (the elf asleep in a sock, the elf reading a book) for the nights you are too tired to think.

Let the city do the work. Sand from the playground, a bowl of dates, a paper abra in the sink, a toy camel, a tiny cup of karak, the elf sunbathing on the balcony rail in a bottle-top hat. Dubai gives you more material than a grey December ever did.

Mind the heat and the balcony. Keep the elf indoors and away from open balcony doors, and do not leave chocolate props in the sun. A melted scene is a disappointment at six in the morning.

Turn the ideas into outings. The best mornings set up an afternoon: the elf asks about the boats, and at the weekend you take one. A child who has just moved needs reasons to go out and look at the place.

Keep a thread to home. A postcard from a grandparent, a family recipe, a carol from the car. The elf can carry both places at once, which is something a child cannot easily do alone.

Pair it with the countdown. If the advent calendar has gone stale by mid-month, rebuild the last ten days around something your child is actually waiting for, whether that is a visit, a flight or a school show.

Let the elf leave on Christmas Eve. A clear ending, with a promise to return to the same address, matters more than any single clever scene. For more December plans in the city, see our guide to Christmas in Dubai with kids.

Let’s sum up

An elf does not have to be ambitious to be useful. For a family that has just moved, it can be a guide to the new city and a thread back to the old one, and a way for a child to be the expert for once. Keep the scenes small, turn the best ones into outings, let home in when it is needed, and end with a letter to Santa that has the new address on it. By Christmas Eve, the elf may not be the only one who has arrived.

Questions about the Elf on the Shelf in Dubai

Most families have the elf arrive on 1 December, or the last weekend of November, and leave on Christmas Eve night. Choose one and keep it the same each year. Children like the elf to be dependable, and a fixed arrival and departure makes it part of your Christmas countdown rather than an extra job.

Use what is around you: the elf counting dates in the fruit bowl, sitting in a paper abra in the sink, riding a toy camel across a tray of sand, writing marhaba on the fridge, or fanning himself in the heat. Each takes a few minutes, and several of them lead naturally to a weekend outing.

Yes. Many families let the elf carry the letter on Christmas Eve, which neatly answers the question of how it gets there. Others post it to grandparents abroad, who keep it. For a child who has moved, it is worth adding the new address, so they know Santa has it. If they would rather hand it over in person, our guide to meeting Santa in Dubai can help.

No, but the two work well together. The elf is the surprise each morning, and the advent calendar is the steady count of days. If one goes stale halfway through December, let the other carry the countdown for a while, or combine them, with the elf in charge of the calendar.

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